Saturday, April 14, 2012

Of recent happenings and thoughts.


last night , i did my very first apparel review at bestofshopping :) 
the people in the livejournal community are so friendly and encouraging . 
the postive comments totally make my day. 
it's so true when they say shopping brings people together, just like our uni clique. 

been really busy with the exam preparations and ouch , current countdown : < a month
we are really racing against time . god please multiply my strength and capacity. 
my blog looks so bare with the lack of updates :<


last night , we celebrate wing's 21st birthday at kim's family restaurant. 
thank god all of us live within the same vicinity. makes it so much easier to meet for a meal 
that got me questioning, we don't really meet up for meals even though we stay so near :(
anyway , it was our first meeting with wing's boyfriend aka OWL (one week later)




food glorious food . not very impressed with the selection of side dishes on that day though :(
not a fan of spicy rice cakes but i'm loving the magee noodles and ham . 
makes me miss seoul so much. when we could eat unlimited flow of bbq meet for 8000 won 
had 6 hours of class tuition before the meetup and was really zonked out. 
never felt so lethargic before. + the fact that age is catching up .. not a good sign. 

surprised the birthday girl with a tiramisu cake from cake avenue 
what a tasty sinful indulgence. will definitely be back for more cakes and pastries. 



& to punish wing for her delay in delivery of news of her new status.. 
we decided to be naughty and cheeky on her 21st birthday celebration 
we made her take 21 different shots of different requirement with her bf in the restaurant
had a good time laughing and squeaking in delight when each mission was accomplished. 
below's one of the many pictures taken and we sure hope they get hitch one day ! 



 linzhong who's caught red handed :x 

after dinner, we headed for a karaoke to sing and chill while some of us went home to mug . 
they lied when they say things would be a breeze after A's . everyone's so busy and stressed. 
i can't imagine the stress my kids have to go through in future when it's already so competitive now



two weeks ago , i went on a proper date with kun the superficial boy 1991. 
last week saw me going through my worst ( physically )
i had to down a series of bitter powdered TCM followed by western chalky medicinal solution.
all through all these shit, i didn't even lose much kilograms. girls' main concern. 
the very 'health conscious' bf wanted me to gym with him despite having chest pain
" you really got heart pain meh? " 
so i asked him to choose between a fat but alive gf & skinny but half dying gf. 



started off the day with a hearty brunch at one of the white dog cafe (??)
before we utilised the sentosa voucher that his mom got for us
we had the entire cable cabin to ourselves on the returning trip (!!) 
regretted wearing a maxi skirt because it's so inconvenient and hot 
nevertheless, it was a very good date because we spent quality time together.
it's always me studying in the dining room while he plays his playstation in the room. 




love this aztec top ^^




 last week was emotionally and physically taxing for me. 
while i lay down on my bed, my head was spinning
it was so traumatising that i wouldn't wanna go through that ever again
one of the most disgusting and uncomfortable moments in life.  
i couldn't revise nor comfort one of my dearest girlfriend who's having a hard time now.

just yesterday , one of my girlfriend told me about her aunt being abused by her husband. 
my mom went through a failed marriage so she always warned me to choose my partner carefully. 
she thinks kun's a good man and asked me not to choose anymore lol 
while my friend sarah's mom kept asking her to keep her options open. what contrast.
as i'm typing this, i'm seething with anger 
with a man who broke my friend's heart ; i doubt he gives a shit anyway. 
it's funny how some people can move on so easily. 
i went through my fair share of breakups and heartache and they were nightmare. 
but always remember and remind yourself constantly 

"He who isn't there at your worst , doesn't deserve to be there at you best "

xx till the next. 




2 comments:

  1. so true! may all girls be happy with or without a guy. cause we all deserve better ^^ <3
    -gra

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